Ugh, it hurts so bad to have fallen in love w/ith someone who is not "into" you. Why couldn't he like me?

It happened to me.. it happens to most of us and it hurts.. I understand that.. but if he really played you.. then you really deserve better than that.. if he led you on.. and made you believe he cared and he doesn't then you should just try to get over this.. you are not heartbroken.. your heart is bruised.. but not broken.. you will love again.. and you feel alone.. you want someone in your life.. so let it be someone who respects you and who reciprocates your feelings and whom you can trust.. Believe me it happens to almost everyone, it may have been simply a misunderstanding.. maybe you wanted to read more into it than there was.. because you really fell for this guy.. but if he really played you then believe in yourself.. your heart is bruised not broken.. hearts are really stronger than that.. we learn from it.. if you need to cry.. do it.. it helps to release tension.. but you will find real love if you let this one go and are open minded and in time you will meet the right guy.. better anyhow to not mix work with private life.. he is your work colleague.. join a club.. meet someone there.. join a dance club or a singles club.. a much better way to meet someone.. a hiking club for males and females of your age group.. and friendship can turn into more... often when you least expect it.. xxx Don't give up.. and believe me, your heart will heal and you will come out stronger than before xxx I have thought I loved someone before and the feeling wasn't mutual.. it's not nice but one has to accept it and let them go.... don't go after him.. that's below your self respect.. you will find a better match...xx